Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.
— Oscar Wilde.
This is the first post on my new blog. I’m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates.
INTRODUCTION: Respectfully, this is my first blog and I have my doubts this topic will ever get any attention and my situation and fight will never earn a resolution or my final destination…PEACE. I have come to the end of the road of options and consider this a last effort attempt to begin a healing process by warning others and exposing the truths about co-parenting with a narcissist and family court. More people need to be aware of these types of individuals lurking in society waiting to prey on their next victim. If you are unfortunate enough to come across a Narcissist you need to run ….no wait I mean sprint in the other direction and don’t look back…ever. As for the Family Court, avoid it at all costs or it will cost you everything. I don’t mean that in just a monetary manner.
There is a large population, like myself, who are “stuck” in terrible and volatile sometimes dangerous situations because they have to be, well let me rephrase that, they are “forced to” by way of a Family Court Order to co-parent with the other individual and sometimes stripped of their basic parenting rights. What I mean by stripped of their basic parenting rights is typically a Judge will order Joint Legal Custody in a Family Court hearing unless there is undeniable incriminating evidence that it is not in the best interest of the child.
You will hear the phrase over and over “Best Interest of the Child,” truth is that it’s seldom the case . TO BE CONTINUED….
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